My Life
Aspiration
What is aspiration?
We are a culture obsessed with an insatiable need to look perfect, yet very few of us ever come close. Most of us just daydream about a life of “if onlys”. Spending 10,000 pounds to get your teeth fixed is pointless if you are not happy and never smile.
The truth is the patterns we have embedded into our lives have clouded everything that is real, leaving us a nation of disillusioned and disappointed people, aspiring to a myth. Happiness cannot be bought, manufactured or found in any high street store. Happiness cannot be found by looking like your favourite celebrity or copying how they dress. You cannot have Jordan’s life no matter how hard you try and aspire to it. It is already taken and belongs only to her, the product of her own creation.
Venus Cow says “You have your own life so get on with it. Aspiration is pointless.”
If Brad Pitt treats himself to a £50 million yacht you can bet George Clooney will pull up next to him in a £100 million yacht, bigger, faster and more flash. Aspiring to something materially to make you who you are is pointless and will leave you with a huge dose of “Status Anxiety”
Venus Cow says “No one cares what colour your sofa is.”
If a short millionaire playboy with no hair or teeth driving a flash red Ferrari asked you on a date, ask yourself would you consider the man without the car and the money?
Venus Cow says “There’s only one thing to aspire to today, to be the best you can be from the inside out.”
Aspiration has got us nowhere except in debt. There is no point buying 10 ball gowns with matching bag and shoes if you never go to ball.
Venus Cow says “You might look a little out of place down the chippy.”
Aspiring to look like an airbrushed model on TV who says she looks fantastic because she eats a certain brand of cereal is pointless if you are a size 20 and prefer 10 slices of buttered toast for breakfast.
There is no instant fix to a perfect life but one thing we can be sure of, happiness comes from being yourself.
Stop wasting your life wishing you were someone else and recognize you are what you are and can be anything you decide to be, it just needs some work on your part to make it happen. We can never be Jordon or Victoria Beckham no matter how many extensions we put it or cosmetic procedures we under go because we are all unique and those two lives are already taken.
Aspire to be yourself always and be proud of who you are. If you desire material stuff like designer bags, cars, boats and planes, then recognize you need to get a well paid career to be able to finance such an existence or you will never be satisfied or happy.
Venus Cow says, "We think too much and feel too little."
Stop thinking about the designer bag, you saw in a magazine on the shoulder of a rich celebrity, that on your salary you will never own and start feeling grateful and content with what you have around you that money can never buy, like your life.